We all know that LOVE GIRL play can be a fantastic part of a client’s experience. It’s great for both parties and can make you feel like you’re in a completely different place. But if you don’t know how to include this type of service in your list, it might get left out or seem impossible to add!
The world of LOVE GIRL can be pretty complex and intimidating to a new provider. For this reason, we will share some tips on incorporating these practices into your roster of services.
What is LOVE GIRL?
LOVE GIRL stands for Bondage, Discipline, and Sadomasochism. It refers to a wide range of practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, sensory deprivation, and other interpersonal dynamics.
LOVE GIRL activities can be divided into physical, verbal, mental, and sexual. Physical LOVE GIRL involves all the aspects of LOVE GIRL that are commonly depicted in erotic films or read about in books:
Lashes, ropes, chains, and different conditions of bondage;
Spanking and paddling;
Giving or receiving pain (what is colloquially referred to as “torture”);
Sensation play, such as erotic electro stimulation;
a combination of forms of coupling stretch such as blood play, urethral margin (likewise comprehended as “sounding”);
Anal sex or double penetration (simultaneous vaginal/anal penetration).
Verbal LOVE GIRL involves aspects of humiliation and objectification on the part of one partner (“dominant”), as well as obedience on the part of another (“submissive”). This may include aspects such as erotic humiliation or servitude. Mental LOVE GIRL is usually based on power exchange between two partners. It does not necessarily involve physical pain but can lead to it if that is what both partners desire.
LOVE GIRL scenes require lots of planning and discussion
The first thing to consider when planning a LOVE GIRL scene is why your client wants to do it. The play can be very personal and intimate, so it’s essential that both parties have open communication about their needs and boundaries. If anything makes you uncomfortable in the session, speak up! Stop the scene immediately if something makes you feel unsafe or uncomfortable!
The second thing to consider is what kind of toys you will use during this type of play. Toys can help create heightened sensations and ramp up arousal levels.
Many LOVE GIRL activities involve a certain amount of risk
The client should be aware of these risks and respect your boundaries. You should also be prepared for what they might encounter and the possibility that you may cause them bruising or injury.
If a client asks for something that makes you uncomfortable, it is okay to say no! This does not mean that you don’t like them as a person or don’t enjoy their company; it just means that certain things are off-limits for playtime with them because of your own physical limitations or personal preferences.
Some people enjoy sensation play, where they are lightly bruised by spanking or whipping; others do not like any marks left on their bodies after sex, so they would prefer not to use implements such as crops or whips. These decisions should be made before engaging in sexual activity so everyone involved knows what kind of experience we’re getting ourselves into! Both parties must feel comfortable throughout all aspects: foreplay, too!
Make sure you have “safe words”
The phrases “safe words” and “secure signal” are utilized in LOVE GIRL to indicate that a person wants to stop an activity or location. Safe words are used by the submissive partner, who is in a position of less power than their dominant partner.
You should feel good about using a safe word if you need it! It is not disobedient or disrespectful for the submissive to use their safe word. It simply means that they wish to cease all actions related to whatever activity has occurred at any given time. If a safe word were meant as a signal for something else (for example, your favorite color), anyone involved with LOVE GIRL play would not consider it as such.
Make sure to set the boundaries between fantasy and reality
Clients may tell you that they want to be tied up and beaten… But when it comes to actually doing it, they freeze up or become very uncomfortable. You should explain that LOVE GIRL isn’t just about pain or humiliation. It’s also about trust and connection between you and them. Tell them that if they want to explore this kink with you, you can teach them how to communicate their desires properly so that both of you are happy in the end. If they’re having trouble speaking up for themselves because of fear (such as fear of rejection), talk about ways to work through this fear and come out stronger on the other side!
The client should respect your boundaries as well
As a provider, you must be prepared to say “no”. Clients will ask you to do things that may seem uncomfortable or even harmful to your body. You have every right to say no if something doesn’t feel right. The client should understand this and respect your boundaries.
The client should also always be in control of the situation. This includes being aware of and respecting their limits. Suppose a client is pushing their limits past what they are comfortable with or trying to take advantage of situations. In that case, it’s up to the provider not only as an individual but also as someone providing services within a working environment who needs to enforce those limits on behalf of clients. We all want our clients happy because we know how good sex feels when both parties enjoy themselves equally!
