Sex dolls are an incredibly accessible and versatile form of kink. All you need is your imagination to enjoy them, but the clothes, outfits, and stimulating locations never hurt. It’s an invitation to play, be creative, and live out your fantasies. On paper, sex dolls seem like a very accessible form of kink, but many people have significant reservations about trying it, especially for the first time. Specific questions and concerns about sex dolls are frequently rose, which reflect general cultural worries that many of us share. So today, I have Sex Doll A, and hopefully, it calms some nerves and sparks some sexual creativity. Question: I want to try a sex doll, but I’m worried that I won’t be good at it or that my partner will laugh at me. How can I try a sex doll without looking stupid?
I’m okay with a sex doll
It’s hard to get into a sexual situation. Maybe you want your partner to look at you in a certain way. Or maybe your feelings for your partner are so strong that you feel very embarrassed in front of them. Your doll is like a protective parent telling you to be careful not to hurt yourself. So, when you try to role-play with a doll nearby, you might feel a little paralyzed in finding the safest way to show your partner your sexual playfulness. Thank your doll for all the efforts she is making to protect you, and let her know that although it may feel awkward at first, developing your sexual playfulness and creativity will ultimately help you enjoy intimacy with her and help you improve your partner and yourself. Here are some ways to approach your doll that will take some weight off your shoulders.
Roles in Real Life
First, let’s talk about our roles in “real life.” We embody different roles. We can be parents, employees, friends, artists, good people, and dolls. We all have many roles to play, which are intertwined with our identity. We can begin to feel ourselves in our roles. The roles we play in our daily lives help us define the roles we want to play in our sex lives.
Many of us don’t realize that we already play roles in our sex lives. Cultural expectations, self-esteem, desires, and the desires of your partner influence your sexual role. Look at your current sexual role and define it. Are you a seducer? A seducer? Are you dominant? Are you a passionate person? An initiator Sex Dolls In some way, most of us have permanently been role-playing. If you realize this, you might find switching roles easier and playing with them like a toy.
